Thursday, January 11, 2007
I am really wondering why it is so hard to be a woman. Woman had to take care of the kids, look after the house chores and as well as work. Whereas man they all after work go happy or come back home and shake legs complaining tired but had a woman do so before. Not a word of complain and yet at the end of the day is just to get the husband’s infidelity.
I went to my boyfrenz house and as always there will be one pile of clothes over at the sofa over there. As the guys in their household get the privileges need not do the house chores, all the house chores are done by the mother alone and had to look after his auntie 2 children. Though I hate to do housework but I felt that I had the need to fold the clothes as the clothes were besides me when I am sitting in the living room. People wus some “automatic” were pick up the clothes as I am not the first time at his house liao.
His mother cook dinner for me so as to appreciate her I helped her fold the clothes. Back at home I don’t need to fold clothes, vacuum and mop the floor de, yet at his house I need to do all these just like a maid. Sometimes his mother went back to Malaysia I had to look after his auntie 2 children for a couple of hours before their parents fetch them back.
I doing all these for what??? Just like next time if I really get married to my boyfrenz den I can get along better wus his mother and thus there will be less fiction between mother and daughter-in-law hence the son need not choose to either side his mother or his wife right? Yet my boyfrenz don’t understand it! He think that I should accompany him and not do all these house chores. Who likes doing house chores anyway and I did all these for his mother, for him and for myself too. I also don’t want him to be caught in between 2 women. I want my life to be better too as I don’t like to quarrel wus people let alone mother-in-law.
I finished folding the clothes den my boyfrenz wanted me to accompany him eat dinner as he haven’t had his dinner yet but I am the sort of people who likes to finish the thing I am doing first before doing another thing. So I still need to keep the hangers and the mini clips that used to clip the clothes. I asked my boyfrenz to start eating first don’t need to wait for me. I finished keeping in 5 mins time and he had finished eating his dinner. Though I know he is already very hungry le but still this is my style of doing thing. I went to the dinner table and saw him finished his last mouth of rice and I can sense that he is angry wus me, I patted on his arm and he shake my hand off and he really raffled my feather. I actually wanted to eat dinner liao but since he showed me attitude and I don’t want to eat any more and I went to the room.
After which as it was really late and I need to go home though it is 8.45pm only but the bus ride from his house to my house takes more den an hour so I will reached home every late. As I am typing this now it is already 9.50pm and I am still at the expressway it still need at least half an hour den I will reached home. And pray tell me ard 10 plus is it safe for a girl to go back so late as I still had to walk quite a distance before I reached my house and to reach my house I need to walk a dark and long alley. It look fine in the day but at night I am scared got those wus perverted lurking around and since my block a lot of the occupants had already moved. My blocks and a few other blocks near it had been selected for the en-block thingy meaning the government need those plot of land to rebuild new stuffs I heard that it going to build condominium so only left a few of those who still waiting for the flats to be ready.
My mother workplace is at toa payoh and she likes living here she don’t want to move to another area anyway it is also very accessible so estimated that we will get our flat next year 2008. I think more den 80% of the occupants had already moved so it kinda deserted over here and there been a couple of break ins since during the day when all at work is deserted. So you see the cause of worry over here.
I went to my boyfrenz house and as always there will be one pile of clothes over at the sofa over there. As the guys in their household get the privileges need not do the house chores, all the house chores are done by the mother alone and had to look after his auntie 2 children. Though I hate to do housework but I felt that I had the need to fold the clothes as the clothes were besides me when I am sitting in the living room. People wus some “automatic” were pick up the clothes as I am not the first time at his house liao.
His mother cook dinner for me so as to appreciate her I helped her fold the clothes. Back at home I don’t need to fold clothes, vacuum and mop the floor de, yet at his house I need to do all these just like a maid. Sometimes his mother went back to Malaysia I had to look after his auntie 2 children for a couple of hours before their parents fetch them back.
I doing all these for what??? Just like next time if I really get married to my boyfrenz den I can get along better wus his mother and thus there will be less fiction between mother and daughter-in-law hence the son need not choose to either side his mother or his wife right? Yet my boyfrenz don’t understand it! He think that I should accompany him and not do all these house chores. Who likes doing house chores anyway and I did all these for his mother, for him and for myself too. I also don’t want him to be caught in between 2 women. I want my life to be better too as I don’t like to quarrel wus people let alone mother-in-law.
I finished folding the clothes den my boyfrenz wanted me to accompany him eat dinner as he haven’t had his dinner yet but I am the sort of people who likes to finish the thing I am doing first before doing another thing. So I still need to keep the hangers and the mini clips that used to clip the clothes. I asked my boyfrenz to start eating first don’t need to wait for me. I finished keeping in 5 mins time and he had finished eating his dinner. Though I know he is already very hungry le but still this is my style of doing thing. I went to the dinner table and saw him finished his last mouth of rice and I can sense that he is angry wus me, I patted on his arm and he shake my hand off and he really raffled my feather. I actually wanted to eat dinner liao but since he showed me attitude and I don’t want to eat any more and I went to the room.
After which as it was really late and I need to go home though it is 8.45pm only but the bus ride from his house to my house takes more den an hour so I will reached home every late. As I am typing this now it is already 9.50pm and I am still at the expressway it still need at least half an hour den I will reached home. And pray tell me ard 10 plus is it safe for a girl to go back so late as I still had to walk quite a distance before I reached my house and to reach my house I need to walk a dark and long alley. It look fine in the day but at night I am scared got those wus perverted lurking around and since my block a lot of the occupants had already moved. My blocks and a few other blocks near it had been selected for the en-block thingy meaning the government need those plot of land to rebuild new stuffs I heard that it going to build condominium so only left a few of those who still waiting for the flats to be ready.
My mother workplace is at toa payoh and she likes living here she don’t want to move to another area anyway it is also very accessible so estimated that we will get our flat next year 2008. I think more den 80% of the occupants had already moved so it kinda deserted over here and there been a couple of break ins since during the day when all at work is deserted. So you see the cause of worry over here.
10:36 am
